Take some time out for yourself and ask yourself how much have you changed?
I am sure the answer will baffle you.
Life means change. As we see around ourselves, nothing, absolutely nothing is stable.
You know the things that change people the most? They are love and pain.
Both are connected, joined, incomplete without each other.
When I suggest you to do something, I do it myself first…
So when I asked this question to myself, I found out I have changed much. Even in ways which I couldn’t have ever imagined.
I don’t talk about good changes or bad. There is no such thing like that, it all depends upon…. perspective. But one thing that is true enough is that these changes, do hurt.
You know the fact is that the things which you love become your habit and then that habit becomes you. Let us take an eg. I loved. I cared. I sacrificed. It became my habit. Usually we state these things as good but have you ever asked the person who loves, how difficult it is to love? How painful it is to sacrifice?
Then how can one state these as good? It is just good for the other people but no one cares about that person who sacrifices, who cares. All they do is show a mere gratitude and humility but… Does that help that person in reducing his pain? Does it help him to smile when all he has, are tears?
Then comes a time when pain grabs the most of him and he… that loving and sacrificing person changes. Changes into someone which is far more destructive and to be honest which is just not… him.
That is how people change.
My dear readers, we blame people, we hate people for what they did to us and sometimes for what they just are.. but no one asks them how that change came.
Do not be the biased one because your beauty lies in understanding others.
People will never award you with the same respect, the same love which you gave them but that doesn’t that they should be hated.
It is all just a game of expectations. A deadly game which destroys relations.
And we, we should know better than that.
Changes are inevitable, necessary.
Changes happen for a reason, they happen because of a reason.
But never let those changes, those reasons, get the best of you.
If you love someone and you feel they don’t love you the same, let those expectations go. You wont get this time again. Live your life. Love people because this universe will only make sense when you someone to share your feelings with. Changes will happen, welcome them but don’t let them rule.
Don’t let the guests, be the owners…
Stay happy. Take care. I will see you again.